A few weeks ago I took my 2 year old son and 4 year old daughter to a local restaurant.

Normally, the thought of taking them to public places scares me because my son throws tantrums 100% of the time. However, I thought it would be good for them to get out and get used to being in public more.

I chose the local diner because it’s a family owned restaurant with a very laid-back atmosphere.

When we first arrived, things were going really well until my son decided he wanted to sit where my daughter was sitting. All hell broke loose from then on.

Thankfully, the restaurant owner had a pail full of toys stowed away for cases like this. My son was enthralled with all these new things to play with, and before he even had a chance to get bored of them, the owner had brought out a plate of cake for each of my kids.

I was able to finish my meal in peace and my kids had fun playing (even though they didn’t eat even half of their meals).

Even so, I realized that I should have planned our little outing a lot more carefully. Next time, i will make sure to do the following:

• Bring a few toys to keep them entertained until the food comes
• Bring sippy cups with water
• Choose a family-oriented restaurant where they won’t mind noisy kids
• Bring some crayons and scrap paper
• Have an idea of what I want to order beforehand to minimize the waiting time
• Ask the host to seat you me in an area that isn’t quite as crowded (if possible)
• Don’t go during a time when my kids are normally cranky (nap time, when they’re really hungry, etc.)
• Bring a small bag of snacks to tide the kids over, like carrot sticks, crackers, etc.